1. Ask about metaphysics - refuse to discuss issues as they are presented. Go back to the assumptions behind them.
2. Ask about motivations - refuse to go-along with assuming the benign motivations of modern mainstream institutions.
3. Take a step back from (fantasies about...) action*. Refuse to accept the primacy of action - and instead really work on your metaphysics, motivations and thinking.
*This is based on bitter experience of marching and waving a flag at the head of an army of like-minded truth warriors (that doesn't exist).